Beautiful advice from Mufti Ismail Menk:
If marriages were meant to be broken due to a mistake made by a spouse, nobody would be spared divorce. A spouse is meant to be the strongest pillar of support during times of difficulty & hardship. Instead of finding reason to hold a marriage together, today we tend to look for reason to break […]
In the initial stages of marriage
In the initial stages of marriage, affection between the couple is not yet well established or on a rational basis, despite great passion and physical love for each other. Such rational love comes after many years together. It is therefore extremely important for the husband not to succumb to emotional weaknesses at the onset and […]
is it allowed islamically a man to marry a woman who is older than him
Age does not matter, and it does not matter if the woman is older or if the husband is older. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) married Khadeejah when she was forty and he was twenty-five. What does matter is that the man should look for a righteous woman who is […]
So, the marriage is based on
knowledge, not looks, *practice, not preaching, *Forgiveness, not anger, *spiritual love, not lust. *and compromise One should look for a person who 1) Has love for Allah (swt) and the messenger (saw) 2) Has knowledge of the deen, and can act upon it. … 3) can control their anger 4) and willing to compromise. And […]
Best moments of life:
To fall in love with the one you married -To clear your last exam -To know that somebody love’s you silently -To wake up and realize its still possible to sleep -To get a phone call saying you are off duty today … -To Play in rain -To touch the fingers of your newly born […]
The best wife is she
1:Who considers attending her husband as her foremost duty. 2:Who never leaves any requirement of her husband unfulfilled. 3:Who appreciates the merits of her husband and neglects his demerits. 4:Who takes pains in comforting her husband. 5:Who does not put any demand before her husband that is beyond his capacity and leads a life of […]
A sweet truth …
When Allah knows you are ready for the commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under right circumstances. Wait patiently,Don’t waste your time searching and wishing Grow and be ready, You’ll see ALLAH will give you a Love story far better than you could ever dream of… The love story of You and Your Jannah Partner […]
7 Important Things To Have And Give In Your Marriage
1 LOVE : The special feeling that makes you feel all warm and wonderful. 2 RESPECT : Treating your spouse as you would like to be treated. 3 APPRECIATION : To be grateful for all the good things your spouse does for you. 4 HAPPINESS : The full enjoyment of each moment spent together with […]
How To Find Perfect Life Partner
Once there was a very handsome, pious, well educated young man, whose parents emphasised for him to get married. they had seen so many marriage proposals, and he had turned them all down. The parents thought it was becoming a little ridiculous or suspected that he may have someone else in mind. However every time […]
Winning your husband’s heart!
1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female–a man doesn’t want a man for his wife! 2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your pyjamas suit all day. 3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a […]