A story about a marriage meeting in Islam
Once there was a very handsome, pious, well educated young man, whose parents emphasisedfor him to get married. they had seen so many marriage proposals, and he had turned them all down. The parents thought it was becoming a little ridiculous or suspected that he may have someone else in mind. However every time the […]
During the early periods of marriage life
During the early periods of marriage life, many spouses feel as if they are over the moon. Both, the wife and husband, feel as if they are on cloud nine. Yet as the months and years tick on, the love slowly and slowly fades away. The husband stops calling her nice names, like sweetie-pie, honey, […]
Never underestimate the importance of seemingly
Never underestimate the importance of seemingly little things as putting food in your wife’s mouth, opening the car door for her, etc. Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu ‘aliahi wa’sallaam used to extend his knee to his wife to assist her up to ride the camel. Try to always find some time for both of you […]
I want a wife who will get mad at me when I miss a prayer
I want a wife who will get mad at me when I miss a prayer… I want a wife who will pour cold water on me when I don’t get up for Fajr Salah… I want a wife who will draw me closer to Allah, who will get upset when I lie, cheat and do […]
102 Words of Affirmation Every Wife Wants to Hear
women often have the feeling that life is coming at them with the speed of a fighter jet and the chaos of a riot. Add to this the voices everywhere around them saying in subtle and not so subtle ways that the job they’re doing isn’t quite up to the mark. Wives often have the […]
103 Words of Affirmation Every Husband Wants to Hear from his wife
We need your affirmation – we have to have it and, oh, how we thrive with it. Typically, men are quiet about these things but that doesn’t mean we need and enjoy our wife’s affirmation any less. And every man feels it: When his woman is behind him, he feels like a lion. 1) Thanks […]
Stop comparing your spouse to others .
• If your wife has no green coloured eyes like that of your friend’s wife, so what? • If your husband has no car like your neighbour, so what? If these “lacking” make you unhappy, so why did you choose to marry him/her? By comparing your spouse to others, you will only get frustrated for […]
Show love, respect and kindness to your spouse
Show love, respect and kindness to your spouse for the pleasure of Allah, even if its not immediately reciprocated. One of the key ingredients to any successful relationship depends on how you make the other feel. Treat each other with kindness, respect, and love… even if it isn’t readily returned. When you do kind things […]
If a person cheats on their spouse
If a person cheats on their spouse, they would probably one day cheat on the one they cheated on their spouse with! So as much as we should not cheat on our spouses, we should never trust those who have got to us through cheating on their spouses no matter how much they promise. The […]
Brothers
For Marriage, the woman that you’ll choose to be your wife, the daughter in law of your parents and the mother of your kids [If Allah wills to] in this world and the Hereafter, You should to the least know what kind of woman she is/ will be during your absence. For Allah mention ” […]