Sohbat ka tareeqa – Islam

Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad
farmaya
“Tum me se jo koi apni Biwi ke pas jaye to Parda
kar le aur Gadhe ki tarah na shuru ho jaye”
(Ibne Maja,Jild 1,Safa 538, Hadees no 1990,Bab
no 616)
Ummulmomenin Hazrat Aayesha Siddiqa
Radiallaho Anha se Riwayat he ki Huzoor
Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
“Jo Mard apni biwi ka hath usko behlane ke liye
pakadta he,
Allah ta’ala uske liye 1 neki likh deta he,
Jab mard pyar se Aurat ke gale me hath dalta he
uske haq me 10 nekiya likhi jati he,
Aur jab Aurat se Sohbat karta he to Duniya aur jo
kuch usme he un subse behtar ho jata he”
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 113)
Sohbat se pehle khud bechain na ho jaye apne
aap par pura itminan rakhe jaldbaji na kare pehle
biwi se Pyar Muhabbat ki batchit kare fir bos wa
kinar (Kiss) wagaira se usko razi kare aur isi
duran dil hi dil me ye dua padhe:
“Bismillahil Aliyul Azime Allaho Akbar Allaho
Akbar”
Tarjuma: “Allah ke nam se Jo bujurg wa Bartar
ajmatwala he. Allah bahut bada he. Allah bahut
bada he.
iske bad jab mard,Aurat, Sohbat ka irada kar le to
kapade jism se alag karne se pehle ek martaba
“Surah ikhlas” Padhe
“Kul huwallaho Ahad. Allahussamad. Lam-ya-lid.
Walam yoolad walam ya kullahu kufuwan ahad.”
Surah ikhlas padhne ke bad ye dua padhe
“Bismillahi Allahumma jannib nash shaitana wa
janne bish shaitana ma rajak tana.”
Tarjuma: “Allah ke nam se. Ae Allah door kar
humse shaitan mardud ko aur door kar shaitan
mardud ko us Aulad se jo tu hume ata karega”
(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 473)
Hazrat ibne Abbas Radiallaho Anhu se Riwayat he
ke Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad
farmaya
“Jo shaks is dua ko Sohbat ke waqt padhega
(Dua wahi jo upar likhi he) to Allah us
padhnewale ko agar Aulad ata farmaye to us
Aulad ko Shaitan kabhi bhi nuksan na pahuncha
sakega”
(Bukhari sharif Jild 3,Safa 85, Tirmizi sharif,Jild
1,Safa 557)
Huzoor Gause Aazam Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani
wa Hazrat Muhkkike islam shaikh Abdul haq
mohoddas dahalwi aur Aala hazrat imam Ahmad
Raza Khan irshad farmate he
“Agar koi shaks sohbat ke waqt dua na padhe to
us shaks ki sharmgah se shaitan lipat jata he aur
us mard ke sath shaitan bhi us Aurat se sohbat
karne lagta he. Aur jo aulad paida hoti he woh na
farman,buri aadatwali,Begairat,Bad-deen hoti he.
Shaitan ki is dakhl andaji ki wajahse Aulad me
Tabahkari aa jati he”
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 116, Fatwa-E-Razviya, Jild
9,Safa 48)
Inzal (Mani nikalte waqt) ki Dua:
Jis waqt inzal ho yani mard ki Mani uske Uzoo-
E-Tanasul se nikal kar Aurat ki Sharmgah me
dakhil hone lage us waqt dil hi dilme ye dua
padhe:
“Allahumma-La-Taja’al Lish Shaitane Fi-M-
Razkatni Nasi-ba”
Tarjuma: “Aye Allah shaitan ke liye hissa na bana
usme Jo(Aulad) tu hume ata kare”
(Hisne Hasin Safa 165, Fatwa-E-Razviya Jild
9,Safa 161)